Showing posts with label Mi Gente. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mi Gente. Show all posts

Friday, December 14, 2012

{El Dia de la Virgen de Guadalupe} #tradiciones

As the years begin to pass and celebrations come about I am thinking that November/December will be one of our favorite seasons! There is so much to do, so many traditions to hold near and just so much love and hope in the air.

One thing that I know for sure is that as the time passes and the kids get older I have come to realize that what I want most for this holiday season is to make it a memorable one for OUR little family of 4! As selfish as that may sound, I want my kids to know that when times were tough and situations came about what mattered most was US; my Hubby, my Cami, my Santi and myself.

Because when the kids think back and look at our memories together I don't ever want them to say; my parents threw huge fancy Christmas parties with all their friends and family....I want them to say... that we had a humble, happy, loving, gathering with Jesus in our home; even if it was just us and our faith and love for another. It's what my little heart is yearning. For my children to know that the reason for the Holiday's is because Jesus was born and our lives were saved. Because, we are Mexican we have HUGE celebrations when it comes to Birthday's and other life events, but when I grew up, the Holiday's were about prayer, coming closer to the One who was born to be our Saviour. We did this through celebrations like; las fiestas y misa del Dia de La Virgen de Guadalupe, las Posadas, la Noche Buena, y Navidad. I don't remember HUGE fancy parties. I remember prayer, family and awesome food...las bolsitas, los tamales, las piñatas! These are my favorite memories growing up. Playing with my cousins on cold winter nights after almost 2 hours of prayer...my Grandmother was intense! Ha. And, a lot of love and faith being planted in our hearts.

Which is why, when it comes to traditions and celebrations I try to make them count and make them memorable. Every year more and more!


cami and vigren



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dia de la virgen


Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Beliefs and Curanderas..... #maldeojo

{Disclaimer: Yes, I am Catholic. While I am Catholic I don't have a limited or closed minded view about religion, faith and seeking God in your own manner and beliefs. I would NEVER attempt to make others think, believe or pray the way I do. So, please be kind with your thoughts and words. I believe in Jesus, the Father and the Holy Spirit as well as the, the Virgin Mary & the Virgen de Guadalupe and all the Saints.}

I am not usually a "disclaimer" type of person. I am who I am, my faith is my own and I really don't believe in making others convert or thinking like me ever. We are all entitled to our own feelings, thoughts and beliefs.


veladoras



With that said.

The other day I caught myself trying to "sweep" my son with an egg, you know how the Curanderas do or in my case my Momma does. My Son was not in the mood for anything and he had maybe the worse freak out moment while I was attempting to bathe him. I asked him if he was OK, I checked him to see if he was hurt and moments after the episode and without knowing what to think I started to pray with fervor over my son.

I usually pray with or over my children before bed or in the morning but this day, it was a different kind of prayer and I had no idea how or what but I felt like I needed to take action. Trust me it wasn't anything medical because I know my son and he was fine. Had I felt that he had to go to the Hospital I would have taken him. I am a fairly new Momma but I know my children well and I tend to trust my instincts pretty well.

I then thought of finding him an amuleto, in particular the ojo de venado bracelet to protect him from el mal de ojo and  evil spirits. Was I going over board or just being a Momma and thinking of everything I can do for my child? I don't know but he has not had an episode since and I have been lighting my candles and praying over my home every night. It brings me peace. As prayer usually does.

My Momma usually likes to bathe them and then pray over them with the egg...it gives her peace of mind... I don't mind it and as long as what we do is pray...I never see anything wrong with it. Am I weird? Maybe. Am I Mexican? For sure.

How about you? Your Momma or Abuelita ever try to do any special ritual for you or your kids?   




Tuesday, October 16, 2012

On {My Niche} #latism

I am a thinker. No doubt about that...ever. 

Sometimes, I over think and re-think most everything. 

It's in my nature. 

It's gotten better with age... I have become a little more... "ehh, who cares!"... and not so much... "who really cares???"

With being at home it's come to my attention that maybe I don't have a niche?

I mean I love taking picture but I am not a professional. Don't really want to be...

I love crafting and don't mind making new and exciting projects, but mass produce? Not sure...

I love to write, hence the passion for this Blog. I am in the weeks to come going to try and evolve my Blog and explore. 

Yes, ultimately I am a Momma Blogger but maybe a more Culturally inclined Momma Blogger is what I should focus on... 

I am not really a food and health expert and while I am a HUGE supporter of a well rounded education and becoming MORE than you think you can be, I know that all of these items should be focused on at home first in order to develop fully. 

I can write about, just about anything but I know that one thing that both my Hubby and I love is our culture, where we came from and where our parents grew up..we love Mexico; it's culture, colors, people and food! Right now though we have not visited in over 3 years. It's sad but I pray that the situation there improves. And, while we can't travel there with our kids we plan on teaching them Spanish and showing them how we grew up...music, food and all.

Maybe my niche is not fully developed either.... I have to think a little more, dig a little deeper and write from my culture... 

I guess this has all come about because of the upcoming Conference my nerves are starting to go crazy and trying to explain who I am and where I will go is going to stem from where I grew up...growing and learning everyday..it's my plan... and now my focus. 

Celaya, Guanajuato~2007

Guanajuato~2007

Las Huertas, Guerrero~2007

Cuernavaca, Morelos~2007

Michoacan~2007

Tepoztlan~2007



Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Cause I'm Human.

I find myself asking; why? A lot lately.

Seeking answers about life in general, about my Faith, about success, about goals?

I love to Blog and would do it fill~time if I could! I love sharing and expressing.

I love when I eventually get feedback...good..or bad... which then leads me to another question; why not?

Is what I say {type/believe in} important?
Does it impact {in a positive family/marriage/Faith oriented manner}?
Does my sharing inspire or make you think?
Is it informative and joyful, and joy filled.....

At what point do I let it go and just write for self-fulfilment, for growth, for sake of keeping track of memories.....

My goal as a full-time outside the home {Christian/Catholic} Working Mommy/Wife "Blogger" is to identify. To create an identity that can be relate-able to MANY, not just to "OTHCWMWB's" {Ha. Came up with that one on my own ::insert cheesy smile here::; it's kinda long I know}

Then I think..am I Bloggy High Maintenance? {Ha.}

What do I need? What do we all need?

After a late night email, some nights ago, with one of my SuperBFF/Momma's of Faith....who mentioned a support group... I came across a book, which another Family Mommy Friend/Aunt gave me when I first took Santi to daycare last year...it's the Houston Mama's Handbook....and then,  it hit me... I am NOT high maintenance and what I Blog about may be of support to just about ANY other Momma out there!

There for...I am calling this my Momma Blog Followers Support forum! {Ha. Man I gotta come up with shorter names!}

If you have ANY resources that we can share PLEASE comment or email me....

WHAT EVER THE RESOURCE MAY BE...

Here are some that I have found over time; We all need a helping hand:

Houston Area Women Center

Women's Resource Center

Crisis Intervention of Houston

Community of Faith

Catholic Charities

WorkForce Solutions

Casa Juan Diego


Please feel free to add....

Friday, July 15, 2011

{Mi Gente, Es Mi Pasion}

Please check out this Blog Post by fellow Houston Blogger {MUCH more successful than I am!} Juan Alanis over at Juan of Words!

It's a very emotional and motivating story about Child Migrant Workers of South Texas...it definitley hit home for me.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

En Español Anyone?


La semana pasada me sucedió algo muy triste....
Me falto el Español!
A mí ?
Yo crecí en una casa en donde el inglés no existía.
Mi primer idioma fue español hasta que empecé el kínder aquí en Houston fue cuando aprendí inglés. Aparte de eso cada año pasábamos todas las vacaciones largas en Reynosa con nuestra familia.
Cuando crecí y me gradué de la preparatoria tenía un orgullo muy grande de no solo se México-Americana si no de saber español mejor que muchos de mis compañeros. Empecé la universidad y uno de las ventajas más grandes que tuve para encontrar trabajo fue, el saber hablar, leer y escribir ESPAÑOL!
Por muchos años no solo obtuve trabajos por mi facilidad del idioma si no por ser Hispana. Y me enfoque mucho en trabajar con mi comunidad. Trabaje sola como Notario Público y le ayude a muchos a completar sus formas para ser residentes y ciudadanos Americanos, y también les proveí traducción de documentos. Después trabaje en Texas Children’s en donde era una de 3 quien sabia español, los pacientes me buscaban por lo mismo. Y luego con trabadora de casos de guardería en el Worksource, mis clientes más fieles eran los hispanos. En sí, siempre eh trabajado con mi gente. En mi trabajo actual también pero como para asistir en elecciones uno tiene que saber inglés, hablo un poco más ingles que español con mis trabadores electorales.
Por eso es que la semana pasada cuando llego una familia a pedir información me sentí muy apenada que no podía pensar y producir la información prudente y rápidamente que los señores me pedían.
Esto me hizo pensar en mi pasión, en mi propósito? Propósito en mi carrera y en mi vida.
Soy parte de una iglesia en donde según yo hay muchos Hispanos me encanta ir a misa y ver a “mi gente” pero me da mucha pena y tristeza el saber que según la administración de esa iglesia “no hay muchos Hispanos”. Lo que yo sé es que si lo hay, lo que sucede es que uno no participa igual que los feligreses Americanos.
Esto también me ha hecho pensar en mi pasión, y en mi propósito.  
Por eso.
Voy a empezar a escribir más en español y mantenerlos informados de mis planes para seguir mi pasión y vivir el propósito que Dios me ha sembrado en el corazón. Siento que todo esto es parte de un plan muy grande para mi en este año!
No solo voy a tener mi segundo bebe, una niña, se llamara Camila. Si no que también voy a cumplir 30 años, y yo sé que de aquí en adelante algo tiene que cambiar en mi….para realizar lo que Dios quiere en mi vida!